MY NAME IS LISA AND I LIVE IN THE VALLEYS OF SOUTH WALES IN A LITTLE VILLAGE CALLED CWMFELINFACH, BIG WORD LOL, SHOULD HAVE BEEN A CHILD TRYING TO LEARN TO SPELL WHERE U LIVE LOL.

I AM A MOTHER OF THREE CHILDREN THOMAS WHO IS EIGHT JOSHUA WHO IS 6 AND BABY ARIANNA THE MONSTER LOL WHO IS 3.

I AM 34 AND BEEN MARRIED TO ANDREW MY HUSBAND FOR 12 YEARS THIS YEAR IT GOES SO FAST, I AM A VERY LUCKY WOMEN AND FOUND THE RIGHT MAN I AM BLESSED. THEY SAY A SOUL MATE IS THERE FOR EVERYONE AND I FOUND MINE. JUST HOPE HE FEELS THE SAME WAY LOL.

I HAVE HAD MY UPS AND DOWNS IN LIFE I AM GOING TO PUT THEM IN BUT PLEASE ITS NOT FOR SYMPATHY ITS JUST IN CASE ANYONE READS THIS AND IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING THEN THEY KNOW I AM THERE TO HELP OR LISTEN..

I HAD SEVEN MISSCARRIAGES AND AN EPTOPIC PREGNACY WHICH I LOST MY TUBE, THIS ALL HAPPENED BEFORE I HAD MY FIRST CHILD SO IT WAS A TERRIBLE TIME ITS ALL DOWN TO A GENTIC BALANCED TRANSLOCATION ITS SO HARD TO EXPLAIN BUT BASICALLY THE BABIES I LOST WERE ENDING UP WITH HALF A GENE TO MUCH OR HALF A GENE TO LESS THATS THE SIMPLE WAY TO DISCRIBE IT.

WHEN I WAS HAVING THE THREE KIDS IHAVE NOW I HAD TO HAVE AMMNIOINTESS THE NEEDLE IN THE BELLY IN CASE U CANNOT UNDERSTAND MY SPELLING LOL TO MAKE SURE THEY WOULD SURVIVE IF I CARRIED ON WITH PREGANCEY I WAS LUCKY, THEY ALL DO HAVE THE SAME CONDITION AS ME MY DAD IS ALSO A CARRIER SO IT MEANS MAJOR ISSUES FOR THEM WHEN THEY COME TO HAVE KIDS BUT WE WILL GET THEM THROUGH IT JUST LIKE MY FAMILY GOT ME THROUGH IT.

I WAS HAVING THOMAS MY ELDEST AND AT ABOUT 28 WEEKS I STARTED TO BLEED IT WAS SO SCARY I WENT INTO HOSPITAL AND THEY DONE TESTS AND THIS IS QUITE FUNNY IT WAS COMING FROM MY OTHER WHOLE NOT THE BABY WHOLE LOL I HAD DEVELOPED CHRONS DISEASE THE DISEASE OF THE BOWL. SO FOR SEVEN YEARS NOW I HAVE HAD THAT ITS NOT NICE AND I HAVE NEVER FULLY MANAGED TO GET IT INTO REMISSION. BUT AS I SAY ALWAYS SOMEONE WORSE OF THEN MYSELF

WHILE HAVING ARIANNA I DEVELPED SPD SHE BROKE MY PELVIS I HAD TO SPEND A YEAR IN A WHEELCHAIR, THIS WAS WHEN THE DEPRESSION STARTED IT WAS VERY HARD TIME FOR ME I THINK THIS IS ALSO WHERE MY AGRAPHOBIA CAME IN THE FEAR OF GOING OUTSIDE, SIMPLY BECAUSE EVERYTIME I DID GO OUTSIDE I WAS WITH SOMEONE BEING PUSHED IN A WHEELCHAIR WHEN IT CAME TIME FOR ME TO GO OUT ON MY OWN I JUST COULD NOT DO IT, I HAVE MADE SOME PROGRESS NOW BUT STILL NOT GREAT I AM SURE I WILL GET THERE ONE DAY ANY ADVICE ANYONE LOL.

ARIANNA WAS A WEEK AWAY FROM HER FIRST BIRHTDAY AND EVERY PARENTS NIGHTMARE HAPPENED WOKE UP ONE MORNING SHE WAS A BIT SICK, I PUT IN BED WITH US WITHIN AN HOUR SHE WAS COVERED IN SPOTS SHE HAD MENECOGAL SEPTICIMIA MENINGITIS SORRY SPELLING SO BAD, IT WAS HORRIBLE WE SAT BY HER BED IN HOSPITAL FOR 48 HOURS NOT KNOWING IF SHE WAS GOING TO LIVE OR DIE , BUT SHE PULLED THROUGH AND IS NOW THE MADAM AS WE CALL HER LOL

JOSHUA IS OUR MIDDLE CHILD HE IS A WONDERFUL CHILD AND HAS MADE SO MUCH PROGRESS OVER THE YEAR AND HE IS SUCH A WARM LITTLE BOY WE LOVE HIM DEARLY.

LIKE EVERYONE ELSE WE HAVE HAD OUR HUGE FINACIAL PROBLEMS AND PERSONAL PROBLEMS AND PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT THINK I WROTE THAT FOR SYMPATHY I SIMPLY WORTE IT ALL DOWN FOR ANYONE TO KNOW IF THEY ARE HAVING A TOUGH TIME U CAN GET THROUGH IT I PROMISE U CAN

I STARTED EBAY A WHILE AGO AND MY PLAN IS IN A FEW YEARS TO HAVE MY OWN SHOP AS WELL AS RUNNING EBAY AND I WOULD ALSO LOVE TO BE ABLE TO HAVE MY OWN SEPRATE WEBSITE AS WELL AS EBAY ITS FINDIN THE TIME TO FIT IT ALL IN LOL

I HAVE TO PUT THIS IN PROB GET IN EVEN MORE TROUBLE BUT I HAVE TO TELL U ALL THIS AS I WOULD NOT WANT ANYONE TO BE IN THIS SITUATION, LIKE ALL SELLERS ON HERE WHEN I STARTED AT THIS POINT I MUST SAY MY HUSBAND RAN THIS FOR A YEAR BEFORE I TOOK OVER, HE DID NOT THINK ANYTHING OF IT JUST BOUGHT AND SOLD HE WORKS AS WELL AFTER A YEAR WE HAD A KNOCK AT OUR DOOR, IT WAS THE INLAND REVENUE HE HAD BEEN REPORTED AND WE HAD TO PAY THEM A LOT OF MONEY THEY TOLD US ONONE IS SAFE AND EVEN IF U SELL ONE NEW ITEM OR EVEN IF U BUY SOMETHING FROM BOOT SALE AND RESELL ON EBAY U HAVE TO DECLARE THAT PROFIT ITS THE LAW. I THEN DECIDED TO TAKE OVER FROM MY HUSBAND, WHILE MY HUSBAND WAS DOING IT HE SIGNED ALL EMAILS WITH MY NAME AND PUT THE ABOUT PAGE AS ME, SIMPLY BECUASE HE GUESSED WOMEN WOULD RATHER DEAL WITH A WOMEN THAN A MAN, AT THE TIME I WAS ON INVILIDITY BENIFIT, NOW THE BENIFITS AGENECY IS TRYING TO SAY I RAN IT EVEN THOUGH ALL EBAY INVOICES AND ALL PAYMENTS WERE IN ANDREWS NAME, THEY WANT NEARLY TWO YEARS SICK MONEY BACK, I HAVE FAILED AT TWO APPEALS ALREADY, AND TRUST ME I WAS ILL AND AM STILL ILL I CAN HARDLY WALK SOMEDAYS BECUASE OF PELVIS THATS WITH OUT THE CHRONS AND DEPRESSION, I HAVE ONE APPEAL LEFT IF NOT THEN I HAVE TO PAY BACK EVERY PENNY. SO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE IF U NEED ANY ADVICE EMAIL ME I WILL HELP YOU BUT DONT THINK IT WONT HAPPEN TO U AS TRUST ME IT WILL
UPDATE I LOST THE APPEAL AND HAVE TO PAY TWO YEARS MONEY BACK EVEN THOUGH I DONE NOTHING WRONG SO I STRESS AGAIN IF U NEED HELP TO REGISTER AS A BUSINESS OR HOW TO HANDLE THE PAPER WORK WHAT TO DO WITH FORMS ETC JUST ASK I AM NOW A FULLY REG BUSINESS VAT REG WITH PAPERWORK EVERY WHERE LOL AND SPREADSHEETS WITH EVERY SINGLE DETAIL FOR THE TAX AND VAT OFFICE PLEASE PLEASE DONT THINK U CAN GET AWAY WITH ANYTING U CANT AND ITS NOT WORTH IT, ITS NOT THAT BAD OR HARD JUST A LOT OF PAPER EVERYWHERE LOL

ANYWAY AS ALL MY CUSTOMERS KNOW I DO MY BEST FOR PEOPLE I TRY TO KEEP PRICES AS LOW AS POSSIBLE AS WE ARE ALL MOTHERS AND MONEY IS TIGHT FOR EVERYONE OF US SO IF U NEED ANYTHING DROP ME A LINE I WILL ANSWER U AND HELP


THANKS SO SO MUCH FOR BUYING AND READING

LOVE

LISA AND THE MAPLEY MOB